tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7612308600171872737.post3133473451140114237..comments2023-06-13T11:57:25.868-04:00Comments on Life or something like it . . .: MENtality - Mistake #2Ashley M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/16973749713411252147noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7612308600171872737.post-74766357985487598392008-06-27T10:51:00.000-04:002008-06-27T10:51:00.000-04:00RockWill replied - though I didn't think I'd answe...RockWill replied - <BR/><BR/>though I didn't think I'd answer today's blog I will say that "some" women rush to the bed because they are insecure about themselves, and feel that maybe if I give him that special part of me then I'll get him.................eeh wrong! When you can make love to a man's mind and his heart and vice versa then you've got something going. what I've learned is sex is a perk, if you don't have the foundation of relationship, then you have nothing, which by the way hate to be graphic but Jill Scott said it perfectly ...............started simple massage'n on my temple pinching at my mountain peeks that a sister's into...................she goes on to say all that this cat did, cream lava on her skin and neck, dude is plowing like he's making beats, on her back old fashioned is renewed. She says I gotta thank him later if I can remember, talks about all she's doing, things that she learned from her ancestors, feeling like she did some good twerks on dis dude, he's curled up (I'm paraphrasing).......................she gives props to her neck a da woods, she puts him to sleep..............................but she's left feeling ......................EMPTY! Some women do that because that's the only stimulation that particular man wants, nothing else matters. Why I think women rush to the bed instead of the emotions is because they are kind of insecure......................if a man has nothing to chase, nothing to go after, because we freely give it, he has nothing to work at, and we as women can't make him. Not saying that I haven't given my goodies to a dude other than my husband, but until I learned the art of Self-esteem and being in love with me, it was easier to get to the HEmotions or MENtality of a man. I've learned that a lot of men that are looking for RELATionship don't want sex first they just that RELATionship. The perks will come! There are a slew of men who want that anything else.........................leaves one feeling...............EMPTY seeking answers.Ashley M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16973749713411252147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7612308600171872737.post-5695873584895928432008-06-27T09:21:00.000-04:002008-06-27T09:21:00.000-04:00I agree with that being a pretty simple answer as ...I agree with that being a pretty simple answer as well. I'll keep it short. I think a lot of women forget that men have the ability that we don't and that is detaching themselves emotionally. Women can do this but it takes MUCH practice. It's not as easy for us. When there is an emotional attachment the physical connection is out of this world. But let's be real . . . when you know that there is nothing but a physical connection that relationship gets boring and goes sour fast! And this isn't just for the guy. We get just as bored. I just feel that it's more important to tap into that HEmotion before jumping into bed. That part is easy. Once you've conquered or gotten to the heart of him you've made a major accomplishment. That's all I have to say . . . about that.Ashley M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16973749713411252147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7612308600171872737.post-13177177600086315222008-06-27T09:02:00.000-04:002008-06-27T09:02:00.000-04:00MommyMo would like to reply :)I think that's a pre...MommyMo would like to reply :)<BR/><BR/>I think that's a pretty easy answer. Most women think that sex is the way to a man's emotion... so if they give up the goodies...they feel like the rest of him should be open.Ashley M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16973749713411252147noreply@blogger.com