Tuesday, June 10, 2008

The WHY?

Here is your opportunity to let it all hang out. Whatever love/relationship questions you may have you can either reply with your question via email or as a posted blog comment. We'll post the question as a blog and then get some answers to the WHY?'s! Okay . . . have at it! Don't be shy. Believe me if you're asking this question, it's probably crossed the minds of one or more readers in the past. An open forum . . . so shoot. Oh and I don't have all the answers so we're going to work as a team with this little interactive activity! Got it? Here goes . . .

2 comments:

Big Jerz said...

Why in the Hell do women expect us to READ YOUR MINDS instead of saying EXACTLY....EXACTLY what you want us to know ? C'Mon Now, HOLLA BACK !

lovinthisjourney said...

Not professing that I know the "real" answer- but here's my stab at it. The make up of a man is direct, precise, and logical. The make up of a woman may conatin the same-but certainly not the same doses. Infused with the possible tracese of what I mentioned before is emotion- and a whole lot of it. So we respond with just that- emotion- and a whole lot of it! And being that it's not innate for men to repsond that way- they get stumped! We want them to know and they want us to tell them. It's crazy but completely normal. It takes prcatice on both sides to understand the approach, and respond appropriately. Even though I really don't know the "true" answer and I'm sure it's frustrating-- it really does take deliberate practice. Hope that helped a little!