Wednesday, May 7, 2008

So she creeps . . .

In 1994 the R&B trio TLC released a song on their CrazySexyCool album entitled "Creep" and as you can see, I’ve used that as today’s blog topic. The song became the topic of discussion for people in relationships during that time and has since become a timeless source to draw from. The lyrics were written from a woman-in-need's perspective. She knows she’s being cheated on, so in turn, she reciprocates the action. I personally don’t think the intentions for the song are malicious. This is a lonely woman, in love with her “significant other” or entrée as I like to call them, and she’s in need of some attention and affection. The groove of the song is light-hearted but the premise is deep. I think people automatically assume that their intentions are to go out and sleep with whomever will pay them a little bit of attention (which some women do) or that they’re sleeping around to vindicate the lack of attention. I disagree. Creeping could mean a plethora of things – a quiet dinner with an attractive someone that’s into you, frequently intense emails with an old flame that you refuse to throw water on to extinguish, or doing just enough to get what you need or want from your lover a la carte - be it money, getting your hair and nails done, or bills paid. Ladies, you know exactly what I’m talking about. Don’t front. One of my bloggers posted a comment about yesterday’s topic and one thing that he said stood out to me. He said, “That’s why it’s said that women are better cheaters!” This is an open discussion. A battle of the sexes, if you will. The question: Why are women better cheaters?

5 comments:

Ashley M. said...

Emailed comment from a friend -

Well who was any more crafty than Eve............yes I'm taking it there back to the bible. Although the command was given to her husband, she was so crafty, and so sneeky, and her creep'n was so subtle......until she made her husband walk away from God just for her scheme. It's been going on since the beginning of time. Though Adam was probably pissed off at her after the fact she was crafty, because the enemy working in her was crafty. Why do women cheat because the same enemy that worked in Eve is still roaming the earth today. Though women are starving for attention or whatever the case may be, the enemy plays on that, and because he's crafty, he makes us crafty (if we allow him to). It comes to this question what's more important being a queen of scheme or working on your relationship.? That's what I think

True Menfese said...

First I'd like to respond to the previous post. About Eve, biblically speaking we see Eve as the first wife of Adam, from his rib/side, skin if his skin, bone of his bone literally. However, there is another woman involved ... a lot of old schooler's have heard of this woman but don't know her history. Remember Lilith or in the original language Lilitu? She was spiritually powerful, independent, and far from subordinate. Check out her history if/when you get time. Look into it from a African/Palestinian perspective not Euro, you will find out a lot about the "bible" view. With that said, i would like to address Ashley's question ... "why are women better cheaters?" I believe it is because women think beneath the surface of all things and can foresee the result of an action long before a man can/will. Most of the time they are 10-15 steps ahead of us ... most of the time. The second reason is ... because of the all powerful VAGINA, VA-JAY JAY, BOX, FURRRRY BURGER, BEAVER (as the white boys call it) CUSH MONSTER, BUH-DUSSY, OR ... you know what that's enough, I won't use the last one.

That chasm, venus fly trap, pheromone releaser, manhood massager has been the cause of mutiny, war, famine, the rise of kingdoms, the demise of kingdoms,it is the subject of books, movies, radio. Clothing manufactures make jeans for them, women dress to show or hide it. It is responsible for the intoxicating of many a man. It should be labeled a narcotic. It will make a man act like a damn fool, do shit he said he'd never do. It is even categorized as a business, an enterprise if you will. It is labeled as the oldest profession on earth. The blessed vagina is the most powerful thing next to all that is HOLY about the heavenly realm. Amen ... and Amen

Ashley M. said...

Well with that said . . . who's ready for tomorrow's topic?!?!?!?! I know I am!

Big Jerz said...

I was out today during the early portion of this Blog but here's my late nite entry... Short and Sweet, women are better cheaters because they possess the PRIZE. That Cush is the end all be all. Men wouldn't was their asses, work a job, get hair cuts...shit we wouldn't want fly cars or nothing if it wasn't for that Cush ! That's just real talk ! LOL !!! Cush, like riches, makes the World go 'Round. Also on the sneak tip women are partially THE DEVIL SO ANYTHING SLY AND CONNIVING COMES EASY TO THEM !!! LOL ! Just think, anything that can bleed for 5 to 7 days every month and still convince a nigga to lick it by saying "my period's basically over, it's so light you can't even tell" must be Kin to SATAN HIMSELF !!!! HA !

Big Jerz said...

But they are so soft and perfect and fine as hell....damn ! The softness, the places that extra flesh falls so perfectly in the nooks and crannies of her frame, the darkened dip of shadows about the Nape of her neck, the top of her ass or the bottom of her back...which ever you prefer to call it, the valley betwixt her perfect breasts (Never tasted a breast that wasn't perfect), the spot right behind the back of her knees where you apply a little pressure to force the blood from her feet to her pleasure center while her legs are resting on your shoulders during that passion session...... EEEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!! Where the Hell is Mona !???! I gotta go get on somethin Yall. I'll HOLLA !